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November 23, 2012 at 2:23 pm #16374Deepak2JMember
I am actually from India and lives in a very small town and currently doing Undergraduate course in Mech. Engg.I studies well and never prefer to cheat in exams.I m currently in 5th semester. I had a back paper in Maths in 2nd semester. iappeared in 4th sem exam. and answered well and still unable to cleared it. I don’t know how? Some of the students who barely ever came to class and always use unfair means in exams. They got it cleared. They had offered me for cheating in exam and I rejected. Now, I m very frustrated and thinking that I should also cheat in exams cause they r getting higher marks than me by just cheating. And i m not even able to clear the backlog. I don’t know what to do? I never liked to cheat and I dont want to. But about the situation. I don,t know what to do? Please give suggestions.
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November 26, 2012 at 4:48 am #18513YouthspaceModerator
Hey Deepak2J,
Your studies obviously occupy a huge part of your life. It sounds like you feel like you’re giving it all you’ve got…but still barely making it through the semesters. I can imagine that it makes you really angry to feel like others are doing better simply because they don’t care about being honest.
I can hear how it’s making you question what is more important to you: passing classes, or staying honest and not cheating. I would guess that since they offered to help you cheat, it’s even harder to refuse… like you really hate the thought of succeeding through dishonesty, but “everyone else is doing it”. I’m curious, Deepak2j; are your professors aware of all the cheating going on?
This sounds like a confusing and frustrating situation for you. Just so you know, we try not to give advice/suggestions here (we believe that you know your life better than we ever will). We can keep talking about it though, and maybe something will come up for you that makes sense.
Stay connected, Deepak2J. I can hear how mistreated and alone you’re feeling, and how challenging it is to figure out what path to take.
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